Communication —
Getting the Job Done
By Marcia Bosma, Verdugo
Hills and Harborlites Choruses, Regions 11 and 21
Is there anyone out there who
can honestly say that they joined Sweet Adelines because of the
fabulous Standing Rules or because they wanted to be in charge of
deciding the brand of panty hose that the chorus will wear? Of course
not! We all joined because we loved to sing. Having said that, it
is also clear that decisions regarding the communication of the
minutiae (and “not-so-minutiae”) are necessary at times.
The job of communicating this information frequently belongs to
the leaders of the chapter, although it could be argued that it
is the responsibility of each chorus member.
I’m reminded of a quote
from the 1967 movie, Cool Hand Luke: “What we’ve
got here is failure to communicate.”
I chose that quote to begin this article because it is vitally important
that we not allow the failure to communicate to be one of the problems
that prevent our chapters from being successful. Even though we
joined to sing, communication is such a key element in the running
of our organization that a chorus’ success is frequently dependent
upon it.
In thinking about communication
within our choruses, two completely different aspects stand out:
1) the communication of information to our members and 2) face-to-face
communication between leaders and members. In this article, I will
be focusing on both of these areas of communication.
Communicating Information
To Our Members
Wouldn’t it be wonderful
if all the information that our members needed could be communicated
telepathically? That way, everyone would show up at the right place
at the right time, wearing the correct costume and make-up, and
they would know which songs to sing. Then we could just blow the
pitch and sing. But since we aren’t telepathic, the job of
communicating information regarding upcoming events and chorus business
must be done. Not communicating this kind of information can put
stress on our members. But with a good “plan” everyone
can receive the facts and reduce that stress.
As chapter leaders, remember
a few things:
• Not everyone has access
to e-mail, so make sure that those members are not left out of the
loop. A phone tree for those people is a good alternative.
• If your chapter is one
that distributes multiple reams of paper each week, some things
will go home in the chorus bag and never be read. At the very least,
mention what you have distributed.
• Some people are auditory
learners and have the need to hear the information.
• Disseminating information
in several ways is the best way to ensure that all of your members
will know what is going on.
Face-to-Face Communication
Between Leaders and Members
Communicating is a very complex
thing. We send messages even when we don’t realize it, because
face-to-face communication is so much more than the words we use.
In fact, studies have shown that only 7 percent of our communication
comes from our verbal messages. Nonverbal messages make up the other
93 percent, with vocal cues (tone of voice, pitch, volume, etc.)
accounting for 38 percent and body language the remaining 55 percent.
What this information means
to you is that you must be constantly vigilant about the messages
you are communicating to the others around you. And this applies
to everyone in the chorus, not just the leaders. Remember that your
guests are judging the chorus not just by its leaders but by the
messages they receive from everyone — and those messages are
frequently the ones you send when you roll your eyes, breathe a
heavy sigh, or even talk out of turn on the risers.
If you are a leader or aspire
to be a leader, here are a few suggestions to help you establish
a positive communication flow with the members of the chorus:
• Use clear, concise,
positive language when talking with fellow chorus members.
• Remember that sincerity
is a trait that others look for in their leaders.
• Be aware that when your
words conflict with your nonverbal messages, the nonverbal messages
win.
• Follow through. If you
agree to do something, do it. If you find that you cannot do it,
give an explanation as to why not.
• Keep your members up
to date. If the chorus is behind schedule and needs a little push,
tell the members. Sometimes that’s all it takes to motivate
your team.
• Be a role model. Many
times a chorus emulates its leaders. Try behaving, talking, dressing
and acting the way you would like your chorus members to behave.
• Give feedback when needed.
If there is a need to critique someone’s performance on a
task they were assigned, provide specific examples of what they
did incorrectly rather than generalizing. Give positive feedback
when deserved, too.
• Get feedback. Ask someone
you trust to monitor your communication weaknesses. Perhaps you
have had a specific problem area — ask them to watch for that.
• Work on your weak areas.
* * *
Even if you are not a leader
in your chorus and have no desire to become one, the communication
skills which have been briefly (very briefly) discussed above can
help you in your everyday interpersonal communication. If you do
have aspirations to become a Sweet Adelines leader, then there are
educational opportunities for you to learn the skills that will
help you communicate better with your fellow members. A couple of
years ago at IES, I remember seeing Dale Syverson attending a class
on Smart Leadership. When I mentioned that I was surprised to see
her in that class, she replied that she thought that chorus directors
needed those kinds of classes as much as the musical ones. It’s
all part of “getting the job done.”
If the reason we joined Sweet
Adelines was for the music, then the last thing we need is “failure
to communicate.
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